[ about the not having been destroyed here thing. about that. ]

I don't think that it's hard. But I suppose my perception of proving it would be to prioritize the person you love above others, when possible. [ okay the 'when possible' is kind of negating that entire point immediately but don't think about that too hard. ]

But if you love everyone, that puts them all on equal footing. From there, the different ways you love and the amount you love tips the scales again. Which leads back to it just being your starting point. Whoever is at the bottom of this ranking may not be someone you dislike. But they are a person you prioritize less than others. And that would not be love.